22 May 2024
Be Your Own Cheerleader: Recognise and Own Your Success
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Manisha Reddy
In the professional world, recognition can feel like a luxury, especially when we pour so much of ourselves into projects only for the credit to land elsewhere. Over the years, I’ve learned the value of being my own cheerleader. If we don’t clap for ourselves, who will?
It’s about standing up for your achievements and reminding yourself—and others—of the value you bring, even when the spotlight doesn’t always find you. Whether it’s others taking credit for our work or a lack of acknowledgment from leadership, it’s easy to feel invisible—even when we’re the greatest contributor to a team’s success.
Empowerment: Give Credit Where It’s Due—To You!
Relying on others for validation often leads to disappointment. I’ve found that celebrating my own contributions gives me a sense of pride that no one can take away. Self-praise isn’t about bragging; it’s about honouring the hard work, creativity, and skill I bring to each project. Taking a few moments to acknowledge my wins—big or small—has become essential in reminding myself how far I’ve come. Self-appreciation is empowering and builds resilience for the times when recognition doesn’t come externally.
Visibility: Making Your Achievements Visible and Sharing Wins
Many of us feel uncomfortable sharing our wins, but I’ve learned that if you don’t advocate for yourself, you risk being overlooked. Don’t wait for someone else to sing your praises. Sharing my successes—whether it’s a quick email update, a note in a meeting, or a casual mention in conversation—helps keep my contributions visible. Self-advocacy has been an invaluable tool, not only for staying engaged but for carving out future opportunities. When you highlight your achievements, you pave the way for others to see what you’re truly capable of.
Confidence Booster: Be Confident in Your Value Through Self-Recognition
Taking pride in my accomplishments has been a powerful confidence booster. By acknowledging my own hard work, I reinforce my motivation and remind myself of my value. This sense of pride is something that no lack of external recognition can take away. Celebrating my successes no matter how big or small helps me show up more confidently and with a renewed energy that fuels my work and personal growth.
When Others Dim Your Light:
It’s frustrating when others take credit for your hard work or when you feel unrecognised despite making significant contributions. But I’ve realized that no one knows my work as well as I do. If someone overshadows my input, I try to address it directly by sharing my contributions openly and keeping track of my achievements. Documenting my successes has been a powerful reminder of what I’ve accomplished, regardless of who does or doesn’t see it.
Owning Your Success:
My advice to professionals is simple: own your success, without hesitation. Don’t shy away from taking credit for what you’ve accomplished. This isn’t about being boastful; it’s about taking pride in your hard work and standing confidently in what you bring to the table. By valuing our own contributions, we become our own advocates and recognize that our success is, first and foremost, our own.
At the end of the day, you are your biggest advocate. No one will celebrate your success with the same passion as you can. So, make it a habit to clap for yourself, even when no one else does. By doing so, you empower yourself to shine brighter, build confidence, and ensure your contributions are recognized—if not by others, then at least by you.
Your success is yours. Never let anyone dim that!
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